Real Talk I

Okay so, just some things that been on my mind for a while as I status stalk on my newsfeed, which doesn't feed me at all. This is not for the easily offended and if it does not apply to you and you have negative comments, Ima ask you to keep em to yaself...

Young men, the pregnancy and STD rate has gone up in Omaha like through the roof. Since you are suppowsed to be the young leaders and future heads of households (yikes), Ima start with you. When are you going to learn that every young lady, whether she is throwing it around or not, is not your scratchin post??? Ya'll are screwing virtually everything that has 3 pairs and a hole but THE FIRST to scream it's not mine when she say she pregnant! If you hadnt screwed her there would have been no chance!!! If you had kept your other head covered, there would have been no need for her to come your way with "you my babydaddy and you know it!" And then how do you get upset when she says you are and then upset when the baby isn't yours? Make up your minds!!!! Here let's break it down pebble level: learn to piss or get off the pot, learn to step up to the plate or get off the field! This is not a game and trust you are messing with a daughter of the one true King and He is not pleased! This is your future but when you waste it on weed, alcohol and tootin every girl you see because you need to be validated for your own insecurities, then it's everyone else's.... Step up young men if you have kids and if you dont.... keep it that way.

Young ladies, you are not off the hook. If there was noone for the young men to sleep around with and pass around, there would be no STD's and preganacy would be how it should be, between husbands and wives. My issue I pick with you is the bitterness you shower on your kids because the man didnt stay when you thought he would. Instead he wound up with somebody else and you feel becaus eyou are the baby mama or at least the first, that you should always come first. No boo boo it doesnt work that way. If he cheated WITH you ON somebody else, he will cheat ON you WITH somebody else (read that 3 times). Stop validating yourself with what you have and choose to be worthy by who you are. You are loved by Someone you dont feel you have any business talking to or going into His house unless you are plastered with make up and a chip so high Denver has better altitude. Here is my pebble level to you: Find your worth... its not who you can get, its who you are. Make him wait!!!! The whole "I love you Boo, I want us to be closer" nonsense.... if he wants to be closer tell him to pull up a chair and pay attention to what you say, not what you got on!! You are worthy of so much more than being somebody's baby mama!! You were meant for more than that! But if you settle, dont take you anger out on the kids. They didnt ask to be here.... you did.